Here is an update on our tree that was really damaged. We cut off the downed branches and sprayed the open wounds. Hopefully it balances out over time. Its really lopsided now. Its half of what it used to be but seemed to leaf out fine.
Trees bending over? We really didn't have leaves yet with the March event but I was surprised at how fast the trees started slumping towards the ground. When we had 3-4 inches we had trees breaking.